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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 17:48:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fast Seriously Ezra 8:21 (ESV) Then I proclaimed a fast there, at the river Ahava, that we might humble ourselves before our God, to seek from him a safe journey for ourselves, our children, and all our goods. For a meaningful fast, people must not only withhold food, but they must also agonize in prayer. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=forthisgeneration.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3151432&amp;post=90&amp;subd=forthisgeneration&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Fast Seriously</strong></p>
<p><em>Ezra 8:21 (ESV) Then I proclaimed a fast there, at the river Ahava, that we might humble ourselves before our God, to seek from him a safe journey for ourselves, our children, and all our goods.</em></p>
<p>For a meaningful fast, people must not only withhold food, but they must also agonize in prayer. Fasting is more than diet adjustment; it involves spiritual agony and intercession.</p>
<p>Originally great distress would beset the people (cause) and then diet was adjusted as people were too upset to eat (effect). But in time people realized fasting should be the cause to lead to the effect of agonizing in intercessory prayer (“Fasting for Spiritual Breakthrough” by Elmer Towns, 47).</p>
<p><strong>Why Fast Seriously or even at all?</strong></p>
<ul>
<li>Because believers are in bondage to sin.</li>
<li>Because your family may need a spiritual breakthrough.</li>
<li>Because our church needs a spiritual breakthrough.</li>
<li>Because the body of Christ needs humbled and unified at FSBC and in America.</li>
<li>Because the lost need saved in Tucson, Arizona, America and the World.</li>
<li>Because the city is enslaved in darkness.</li>
<li>Because poverty, starvation, disease, and injustice is killing multitudes in our world.</li>
<li>Because our government has lost its way.</li>
<li>Because we are not desperate enough for God and it will help us remember what it is to feel desperate.</li>
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		<title>Fasting: Make Space for God in your Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Dec 2011 23:34:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[In our busy lives where we often make much of food and much of entertainment, one goal of fasting is to create space in our lives for God to speak through His Word and prayer. Fasting is an opportunity to make space for God in our lives. It is important that fasting is done with [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=forthisgeneration.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3151432&amp;post=78&amp;subd=forthisgeneration&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In our busy lives where we often make much of food and much of entertainment, one goal of fasting is to create space in our lives for God to speak through His Word and prayer. Fasting is an opportunity to make space for God in our lives.</p>
<p>It is important that fasting is done with right motives. It is about the spiritual life of the person fasting and praying in the will of God. Going with or without food has no spiritual value in and of itself. 1 Corinthians 8:8 says, “Food will not commend us to God. We are no worse off if we do not eat, and no better off if we do.”</p>
<p>Also, if you are the type who skips lunch often or never eats breakfast, you cannot count that as fasting. Going without food is not fasting. But when you make sacrifices and give up things that maybe you have become more in love with than God, or depend more on than you depend on God, that is where fasting is.</p>
<p>Let’s give up the things we love more than God at times so that we might seek, know and love God more. During a lunch instead of eating go and pray.</p>
<p>Scripture References for Fasting:</p>
<p>1 TIMOTHY 2:1-2<br />
&#8220;I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men; For kings, and for all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty.&#8221;</p>
<p>ROMANS 12:1<br />
&#8220;I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, [which is] your reasonable service.&#8221;</p>
<p>MATTHEW 6:33<br />
&#8220;But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.&#8221;</p>
<p>ISAIAH 58:6<br />
&#8220;[Is] not this the fast that I have chosen to loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that ye break every yoke?&#8221;</p>
<p>Matthew 6:16-18, Matthew 9:14-15, Luke 18:9-14</p>
<p>Relation to Prayer and Reading of the Word:<br />
1 Samuel 1:6-8, 17-18, Nehemiah 1:4, Daniel 9:3, 20, Joel 2:12, Luke 2:37, Acts 10:30, Acts 13:2</p>
<p>Corporate Fasting:<br />
1 Samuel 7:5-6, Ezra 8:21-23, Nehemiah 9:1-3, Joel 2:15-16, Jonah 3:5-10, Acts 27:33-37</p>
<p>Remember that it is the attitude of a heart sincerely seeking Him to which God responds with a blessing (Isaiah 58, Jeremiah 14:12, 1 Corinthians 8:8). May God greatly bless you as you fast!</p>
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		<title>A CALL TO FAST</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Dec 2011 18:23:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I would say desperate times call for desperate measure such as fasting with our praying as we are in desperate times in our world. However, Jesus did not perceive fasting as desperate measures. Jesus assumed we would fast because he said “when you fast” in Matthew 6:16. Jesus also expected his disciples to fast after [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=forthisgeneration.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3151432&amp;post=79&amp;subd=forthisgeneration&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would say desperate times call for desperate measure such as fasting with our praying as we are in desperate times in our world. However, Jesus did not perceive fasting as desperate measures. Jesus assumed we would fast because he said “when you fast” in Matthew 6:16. Jesus also expected his disciples to fast after he was gone (Matthew 9:14-15).</p>
<p><strong>WHAT IS FASTING?</strong> Simply put fasting is abstaining from food, drink, or other things for a period of time.</p>
<p><em>Esther 4:15-16 (ESV) Then Esther told them to reply to Mordecai, “Go, gather all the Jews to be found in Susa, and hold a fast on my behalf, and do not eat or drink for three days, night or day. I and my young women will also fast as you do. Then I will go to the king, though it is against the law, and if I perish, I perish.”</em></p>
<p>Fasting generally was from sunset to sunset (Lev. 23:32).</p>
<p><strong>WHY FAST?</strong> In a sense we need to become desperate for God again. And when we are experiencing hunger pains while fasting then we are reminded to depend on God, to call out to God, to seek Him alone.</p>
<p>Also we fast to seek spiritual help for ourselves and for others (Isaiah 58:5-9). Some things only find their breakthrough by fasting and prayer.</p>
<p><em>Matthew 17:21 (NASB)  &#8220;But this kind does not go out except by prayer and fasting.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>And, our world is saturated with evil and worship of idols of all kinds. Even our stomach is an idol. I know if I don’t get to lunch at 11:30am every day I get grumpy! The Bible says that Paul fasted regularly (2 Corinthians 11:27; Acts 9:9)</p>
<p>We also fast to bring true repentance of and deliverance from sin in our lives. David fasted because of the in he committed with Bathsheba (2 Samuel 12:15-16).</p>
<p><strong>WHAT SHOULD I FAST?</strong> If you have never fasted before then start simple and small. Preparation is needed to fast longer. There are various kinds of fasts and the important thing is to do what works for you. Then, make a commitment to it and stick with it. Also, the best way to stick with it is to have some one fast with you to have accountability.</p>
<p><strong>KINDS OF FASTS</strong></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Some types of fasts<strong></strong></span></p>
<ol>
<li>The <strong>Full Fast</strong>-Going without food for a defined period consuming only liquids (water, juice, broth, etc.).*</li>
<li>The <strong>Daniel Fast-</strong>Eat no meats, no sweets, no bread.  Drink water and juice.  Eat fruits and vegetables for a defined period of time.</li>
<li>The <strong>Partial Fast</strong>-from 6am-3pm or sun up to sun down.  It can be a Full Fast, Daniel Fast, or giving up at least one item of food.</li>
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<p>*Consult a physician before any lengthy full fast.</p>
<p>In our church we teach four major habits for growing Christians: Time in God’s Word, prayer, fellowship with Christians, and tithing. But I believe practicing the discipline of fasting takes our faith to a whole new level. This is where we can really see the power of God unleashed in answered prayer and direction for our lives and the church.</p>
<p>JANUARY 8-29th Join myself and First Southern Baptist Church of Tucson in a 21 day fast. We are fasting and praying for God to do great things!</p>
<p>Here is a link for more great help about fasting. http://www.ccci.org/training-and-growth/devotional-life/personal-guide-to-fasting/index.htm</p>
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		<title>Helping Students Fit in at Church After College</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2011 05:53:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the tragedies of American church life is that college students coming out of vibrant campus ministry experiences seem to have to &#8220;backslide&#8221; to fit into their church. Let&#8217;s put a stop to that. Here&#8217;s what I suggest: 1. Cast a vision for being change agents in their church. Graduates who came from a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=forthisgeneration.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3151432&amp;post=68&amp;subd=forthisgeneration&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the tragedies of American church life is that college students coming out of vibrant campus ministry experiences seem to have to &#8220;backslide&#8221; to fit into their church. Let&#8217;s put a stop to that.</p>
<p>Here&#8217;s what I suggest:<br />
1. Cast a vision for being change agents in their church. Graduates who came from a tremendous disciple making community on campus should not settle for less in their church. They should get involved in the leadership to help the church make disciples. And if their church is not willing then they should move on to a church that is.</p>
<p>2. Maintain accountability during transition. Graduates need to stay in touch with friends who will keep them accountable to stay in God&#8217;s Word, stay in prayer, active in church and other spiritual habits.</p>
<p>3. Graduates need to know that where they are going, God has sent them to make his glory known there. Their job is a platform for sharing the gospel. Their new community is a new opportunity for the sake of the gospel.</p>
<p>Every great movement in church history started with young men and women so let&#8217;s inspire them to keep it going!</p>
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		<title>Sewing for a Harvest beyond your Reach: Priority Alum Serving in Pittsburgh</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today I spent time with Mike Ichamura, a Priority College Ministry alum who was called by God to Pittsburgh during our spring break mission trip in 2002. It was amazing to see the  ministry that he has established to reach out to homeless people in order to lead them to know and walk with Christ [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=forthisgeneration.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3151432&amp;post=69&amp;subd=forthisgeneration&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today I spent time with Mike Ichamura, a Priority College Ministry alum who was called by God to Pittsburgh during our spring break mission trip in 2002. It was amazing to see the  ministry that he has established to reach out to homeless people in order to lead them to know and walk with Christ as well as re-assimilate them back into society.</p>
<p>You never know what God might do through your obedience. We were obedient to bring students to Pittsburgh. And through this, one answered God’s call. Not only has he started Living Ministry, he along with others are being used by God to bring revival to some destitute parts of Pittsburgh. This revival has even caused revitalization of some areas of the city.</p>
<p>Sometimes it is hard to see the results of ministry. You wonder if you’re making any impact. But sometimes you don’t realize what influence you had on a life that is now having a great impact in another city. We have to keep pressing on for the Gospel because we won’t fully know the full reach of our efforts until eternity. But we can praise God for these little glimpses along the way.</p>
<p>You can learn more about Mike’s ministry at <a href="http://www.livingministry.org">www.livingministry.org</a> and find them on Facebook.</p>
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		<title>The ingredients for your leadership success</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2010 22:17:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What kind of leader do you want to be? What kind of influence do you want to have? How will you make yourself the most marketable candidate for whatever arena you move into? Legendary UCLA Basketball Coach John Wooden was asked what it takes to build a dream team and he answered three things: Talent. [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=forthisgeneration.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3151432&amp;post=66&amp;subd=forthisgeneration&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What kind of leader do you want to be? What kind of influence do you want to have? How will you make yourself the most marketable candidate for whatever arena you move into?</p>
<p>Legendary UCLA Basketball Coach John Wooden was asked what it takes to build a dream team and he answered three things: Talent. Talent. Talent.</p>
<p>Leadership experts like Ken Blanchard, John Maxwell or Steven Covey would not agree. Ken Blanchard says skill/talent will get you in the door, but character will keep you there.</p>
<p>I want to propose a leadership framework that will make you the most successful and most attractive candidate for your future.</p>
<p>Ken Blanchard and John Maxwell both say that leadership is influence.<br />
My story</p>
<p>The ingredients for your leadership success</p>
<p>1. Character—Who you are<br />
I don’t care where you work, lead, or serve, character matters first.<br />
Willingness to admit mistakes. Turn from mistakes. Believe and uphold the truth</p>
<p>Ken Blanchard, “You will diminish your effectiveness by fixating on short term results at the expense of long term integrity.”</p>
<p>2. Competence—skills for the task<br />
Prov. 10:4 Idle hands make one poor, but diligent hands bring riches</p>
<p>Be a life long learner.<br />
Prov. 22:17 “Listen closely, pay attention to the words of the wise, and apply your mind to my knowledge.” 23. Buy—and do not sell—truth, wisdom, instruction and understanding.</p>
<p>Andrew Creighton said, “Avoid competency traps. Do not stay only where you are good at things go out and be challenged.”<br />
Always raise the bar.<br />
But also be careful to identify your strengths and your weaknesses. You must learn to capitalize on your strengths and manage around your weaknesses. You weren’t meant to be good at everything. A good leader knows what he does best and delegates the rest.</p>
<p>3. Conviction—What I believe<br />
Romans 14:23 (MSG) 23 But if you&#8217;re not sure, if you notice that you are acting in ways inconsistent with what you believe—some days trying to impose your opinions on others, other days just trying to please them—then you know that you&#8217;re out of line. If the way you live isn&#8217;t consistent with what you believe, then it&#8217;s wrong.<br />
Without conviction you turn to legalism and tyranny—Hitler</p>
<p>Sound conviction should influence us rather than public opinion.</p>
<p>Strong convictions precede great actions. William Wilberforce, Martin Luther King Jr., Mother Theresa, President Reagan</p>
<p>4. Commitment—What I do. This is based on what I believe<br />
Steven Covey wrote, “Effective leadership is putting first things first. Effective management is discipline, carrying it out.”</p>
<p>To have commitment today goes against our cultural norms. But to achieve any success commitment is required. You could also consider this follow through. Or I call it stick-to-itiveness. Are you going to stick to it until your vision or goals become reality?</p>
<p>Parable of the Farmer (Mark 4:26-29)—preparation, patience, profit<br />
Leo Buscaglia “what we call the secret of happiness is no more a secret than our willingness to chose life.”</p>
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		<title>Developing the Leaders Around You by John Maxwell</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 17:44:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[A must read for any leader to move beyond being a good leader into the realm of building good leaders. This book also helped me get out of a low point I was in after recent leadership struggles. I was reinspired to invest in people and I was also given some very practical help on [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=forthisgeneration.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3151432&amp;post=62&amp;subd=forthisgeneration&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A must read for any leader to move beyond being a good leader into the realm of building good leaders. This book also helped me get out of a low point I was in after recent leadership struggles. I was reinspired to invest in people and I was also given some very practical help on how to do it better.</p>
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		<title>What is God Like? Christian Beliefs Chapter 2 Discussion</title>
		<link>http://forthisgeneration.wordpress.com/2009/11/11/what-is-god-like-christian-beliefs-chapter-2-discussion/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Nov 2009 20:34:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[1. What are some attributes that God most clearly shares with us? What are some attributes he doesn&#8217;t share very much with us? Name one attribute of God that you would like to imitate more fully in your daily life and tell why. 2. Can you tell what some of the dangers would be in [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=forthisgeneration.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3151432&amp;post=56&amp;subd=forthisgeneration&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. What are some attributes that God most clearly shares with us? What are some attributes he doesn&#8217;t share very much with us? Name one attribute of God that you would like to imitate more fully in your daily life and tell why.</p>
<p>2. Can you tell what some of the dangers would be in considering one of God&#8217;s attributes more important than all the others?</p>
<p>3. Which of God&#8217;s attributes seem most amazing to you? What have you learned about God through this attribute?</p>
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		<title>The Dynamic Ministry of the Living Word</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2009 22:20:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Acts 12:24 “But the word of the Lord continued to grow and to be multiplied.” When we preach the Gospel and teach believers to feed themselves on the Scriptures, there will be lasting fruit of the word of God spreading as people believe, know and apply. The problem is in many churches people have become [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=forthisgeneration.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3151432&amp;post=52&amp;subd=forthisgeneration&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Acts 12:24 “But the word of the Lord continued to grow and to be multiplied.”</p>
<p>When we preach the Gospel and teach believers to feed themselves on the Scriptures, there will be lasting fruit of the word of God spreading as people believe, know and apply. The problem is in many churches people have become accustomed to being spoon fed theology by pastors and good Bible teachers when instead they should be learning to feed themselves. After all it was prophesied that in the New Covenant we would teach ourselves as we are guided by the Holy Spirit (Jer. 31:31-36; John 6:45). As a result the word of God is not multiplying at the rate it did in Acts.</p>
<p>We need to commit ourselves to know the Word and not expect to be fed only by eloquent teachers of the word.</p>
<p>We also need to commit to preach the word to others so they may believe in Jesus.</p>
<p>Finally we must be faithful to disciple new Christians to teach them how to feed on the word and help them gain a vision for teaching it to others. Through this all believers will take up their God commissioned responsibility to make disciples, teaching them (Matt. 28:19-20).</p>
<p>This requires a time investment many are not willing to make. But if we want to be obedient to our Lord this is required. If we want to see the Gospel spread with power for the glory of God like we read about in Acts this is non-negotiable.</p>
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		<title>Real Friendship</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2009 15:42:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What is real friendship? It seems like a trite term but “authentic” would seem more so. It seems everyone is on a quest for meaning in relationships. One problem we face in building real and lasting friendships is the desire for instant gratification that our culture has produced. I think even in the prosperity of [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=forthisgeneration.wordpress.com&amp;blog=3151432&amp;post=48&amp;subd=forthisgeneration&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What is real friendship? It seems like a trite term but “authentic” would seem more so. It seems everyone is on a quest for meaning in relationships. One problem we face in building real and lasting friendships is the desire for instant gratification that our culture has produced. I think even in the prosperity of the first five years of this new century we grew accustomed to getting quick and abundant results for little effort. But this is never how friendships should work.</p>
<p>1 Samuel 18 introduces us to the friendship that David had with Jonathon. They were the least likely to be close friends but by God’s grace they were. They show us the type of hard work needed to make friendships last. You have to devote time and effort to building healthy relationships. It will cost you at times as you work out conflict. But through the Holy Spirit’s leadership in your lives, you have the opportunity to move each other closer to Christ and grow your bond as friends.</p>
<p>Proverbs 18:24 says “there is a friend that sticks closer than a brother.” Do you have this kind of friend? Someone or a few you can share your struggles with maybe even disagree with but walk away still in committed friendship? Is there someone you could call when you are being tempted and ask for help? That is the friend that sticks closer than a brother. You need to make the investment in people to make these kinds of relationships happen.</p>
<p>As a small group leader, as you model this to your group, you will cultivate a culture of real friendships. I have had a few conversations recently about relating to each other and some of us are reading <span style="text-decoration:underline;">Samson and the Pirate Monks</span> by Nate Larkin (that’s for guys, sorry ladies). So I am moved to help build a value for real friendship among our fellowship.</p>
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